Fresh, fun, and sexy date ideas

It's easy to fall into the old dinner-and-a-movie routine, either out of habit or because you can't think of anything better to do. "Once the courting phase ends and people shift into a more comfortable zone, there's less incentive to come up with fresh ideas," says Courtney Cooke, author of Create a Date. "But if you don't mix things up, the relationship can get stale." Luckily, all you need is a little creative inspiration and a sense of adventure.

 

These suggestions should get you started

1. Have a DIY dinner. Set up a taco bar with all the fixings or make homemade pizza. "Creating something together is interactive, so it brings you closer," says relationship therapist Sandra Anne Taylor.
2. Plan a Sideways-style excursion and hit a vineyard for a wine tasting.
3. Spend the weekend day with your man, sipping cocktails and people-watching at a bar.
4. In the afternoon, visit open houses and fantasize about buying your dream home. "It'll help you look forward to what your relationship can be down the road," says Taylor.
5. Go on an edu-date. Taking classes on anything from Italian to film bonds you and introduces you to new things.
6. Hit a playground or an amusement park. Use the swing set, go on rides, win a teddy bear — you know, have fun like you did when you were a kid.
7. Play around-the-world cocktails. Sample one specialty drink from a wine bar, one from a pub, and another from a Russian vodka room. Take a taxi
8. Take him to a NASCAR-style event. Any guy obsessed with wheels (aren't they all?) will love a trip to the races.
9. Throw on your sexiest preppy duds and hit the indoor-golf driving range.
10. Pamper yourselves with a couples massage at a day spa. "It's a relaxing, sensual experience that can put you in an amorous mood as well," says Janice Levine, PhD, a clinical psychologist in Lexington, Massachusetts.
11. Book a room at a local hotel for only one night. To add an element of mystery, don't tell him where you're going.
12. Want to know if you have a future with your guy? Visit a psychic. You don't have to buy into her predictions, but at least you'll have a good laugh.
13. Instead of eating dinner in front of the TV, grab a blanket, a baguette, and Brie and have a picnic under the stars. Or nibble on finger foods in bed.
14. Test your luck at a nearby casino or horse race. Bring only a set amount of cash that you can afford to lose.
15. Go to a WWE event instead of a comedy club to bust a gut.

Mature Women Dating - Should I Date a Younger Man?

There seems to be a lot of controversy regarding the subject of mature women dating younger men and most of it, in my opinion, seems totally misplaced. After all this is the 21st century and no one bats an eyelid when an older man is dating a younger girl. I have to confess that I am a little uncomfortable with the idea of an older women, or cougar, as she is commonly called, dating a guy who is young enough to be her son, but if the age difference is 10-15 years and both people are happy, then my advice would be "go for it girl!"

Mature women dating know what they are looking for in a guy because they have been there and done it, so to speak. So they are not afraid to ask a younger guy what he is looking for in a potential relationship and if it is something other than what she wants, then she is not afraid to move on.

Women over forty are reaching their sexual peak and can find that an older man cannot match their requirements. In a younger man she normally finds that he is just as keen as she is and, and in return the younger guy finds a partner who is experienced and knows her body well, and can show him a thing or two.

A mature woman also knows that she can call the shots in a relationship with a younger guy. She has her own career and friends, and is not insecure or dependent on him. She isn' t looking for a husband or for a guy that would be a good father to her kids. In short, she is just looking to have some fun and to boost her confidence.

In conclusion, I would say what is the big deal with mature women dating younger guys? As long as both parties know what they are letting themselves in for, whether it is just a quick fling or a long term relationship, if it is making them both happy, then surely that is all that matters.

So girls, if you have been spurning the advances of a gorgeous younger guy for some silly outdated reasons, then what are you waiting for? Go girl!

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How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.

However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.

Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.

 

Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

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Dating Tip - How to take a Girl Home With You

These dating tips are meant to give you the basics of getting the girl over to your place the first time you meet her. Getting a girl to come home with you from a bar or club is a skill. What I mean by that is that it can be learned, and just like basketball or cooking, you can improve at it. These are the steps you need to take when you in a club or bar in order to get the girl over to your place:

Dating tip 1: is to consider the details. By this I mean make sure that there's nothing stopping you from bringing her home. Make sure you have a place close to the venue. It doesn't have to be your house; it could be a buddy's flat that you have a key to. Make sure that there's nothing creepy inside, and that it looks presentable to the girl. The last thing you want is having her come over, and then run out because your friend likes making collages of human body parts for "art". Make sure you have a place in the house that is secluded enough to have sex in.

Dating tip 2: Pre-set your mind on your goal. If you want to get laid that night, you should be thinking of that as your primary goal. Every interaction with a girl should have the context of you wanting to sleep with her later on. I don't mean for you to be creepy, but rather to have an "all out" approach. Make sure you ask the girl early on what she is doing later that night. Some responses that will make your work cut out for you, "I'm the designated driver, and we're all heading out in an hour or so", or "I'm visiting my mom, and staying at my brother's place". Some of these situations can be worked around, but usually your best bet is to find another girl.

If you ask her what she's doing later that night the good answers would be, "Finding an after party!" or "I'm not sure, what are you up to?" Both of those are really good indicators.

Dating tip 3: The most important dating tip. You need to lead as soon as you start the interaction. For example, grab her hand, and get her to follow you around the bar/club. A good way to do this is to say, "I gotta get a drink" take her hand, and lead. This is super important in creating attraction, and it is important if you want to lead her out of the club later on.

Dating tip 4: Escalate at the club. You need to escalate physically, and with what you're saying to her. Give small sexual hints here and there. Gauging her response will allow you to see if she's ready to leave with you, or if you need to spend more time making her comfortable. This is where you go for a kiss. During the make out make sure you pull away first. This is a subtle psychological trick that leaves her wanting for more.

Dating tip 5: Qualify her. A key dating tip any interaction. You need to tell her that you want to hook up with her for a reason other than her looks. There's a million ways to do this, some of them are, "You're the first girl that I was able to have a decent conversation with tonight, I'm glad we met". "I think that its awesome you went to volunteer in Ghana, you must be a really kind person. I think that's great". There's more qualifying pointers at Best Dating Manual dating tips. If you're feeling like you've escalated enough before, the money line here is, "To be perfectly honest, I'd really want to hook up with you right now". Make sure you do this after you qualify her for non-sex-related stuff.

Dating tip 6: Time to lead her out of the club. If you've been leading throughout the interaction it shouldn't be that much of a problem. If you haven't been leading it will be much more difficult. Leading is actually a must in all interactions with women.

One of the books that teaches it best is Become an Alpha Male. Take her hand and say, "K hun, we're getting out of here, let's go, we are leaving right NOW!" Then pull her by the hand and get out of the club. You need to keep up the energy while you're getting her over to your place. Make sure she's enjoying herself, and don't stop physically escalating. After you get to your place, make out with her against the wall as soon as you're through the door, and carry her to the bed afterward.