These dating tips are meant to give you the basics of getting the girl over to your place the first time you meet her. Getting a girl to come home with you from a bar or club is a skill. What I mean by that is that it can be learned, and just like basketball or cooking, you can improve at it. These are the steps you need to take when you in a club or bar in order to get the girl over to your place:
Dating tip 1: is to consider the details. By this I mean make sure that there's nothing stopping you from bringing her home. Make sure you have a place close to the venue. It doesn't have to be your house; it could be a buddy's flat that you have a key to. Make sure that there's nothing creepy inside, and that it looks presentable to the girl. The last thing you want is having her come over, and then run out because your friend likes making collages of human body parts for "art". Make sure you have a place in the house that is secluded enough to have sex in.
Dating tip 2: Pre-set your mind on your goal. If you want to get laid that night, you should be thinking of that as your primary goal. Every interaction with a girl should have the context of you wanting to sleep with her later on. I don't mean for you to be creepy, but rather to have an "all out" approach. Make sure you ask the girl early on what she is doing later that night. Some responses that will make your work cut out for you, "I'm the designated driver, and we're all heading out in an hour or so", or "I'm visiting my mom, and staying at my brother's place". Some of these situations can be worked around, but usually your best bet is to find another girl.
If you ask her what she's doing later that night the good answers would be, "Finding an after party!" or "I'm not sure, what are you up to?" Both of those are really good indicators.
Dating tip 3: The most important dating tip. You need to lead as soon as you start the interaction. For example, grab her hand, and get her to follow you around the bar/club. A good way to do this is to say, "I gotta get a drink" take her hand, and lead. This is super important in creating attraction, and it is important if you want to lead her out of the club later on.
Dating tip 4: Escalate at the club. You need to escalate physically, and with what you're saying to her. Give small sexual hints here and there. Gauging her response will allow you to see if she's ready to leave with you, or if you need to spend more time making her comfortable. This is where you go for a kiss. During the make out make sure you pull away first. This is a subtle psychological trick that leaves her wanting for more.
Dating tip 5: Qualify her. A key dating tip any interaction. You need to tell her that you want to hook up with her for a reason other than her looks. There's a million ways to do this, some of them are, "You're the first girl that I was able to have a decent conversation with tonight, I'm glad we met". "I think that its awesome you went to volunteer in Ghana, you must be a really kind person. I think that's great". There's more qualifying pointers at Best Dating Manual dating tips. If you're feeling like you've escalated enough before, the money line here is, "To be perfectly honest, I'd really want to hook up with you right now". Make sure you do this after you qualify her for non-sex-related stuff.
Dating tip 6: Time to lead her out of the club. If you've been leading throughout the interaction it shouldn't be that much of a problem. If you haven't been leading it will be much more difficult. Leading is actually a must in all interactions with women.
One of the books that teaches it best is Become an Alpha Male. Take her hand and say, "K hun, we're getting out of here, let's go, we are leaving right NOW!" Then pull her by the hand and get out of the club. You need to keep up the energy while you're getting her over to your place. Make sure she's enjoying herself, and don't stop physically escalating. After you get to your place, make out with her against the wall as soon as you're through the door, and carry her to the bed afterward.
Dating tip 1: is to consider the details. By this I mean make sure that there's nothing stopping you from bringing her home. Make sure you have a place close to the venue. It doesn't have to be your house; it could be a buddy's flat that you have a key to. Make sure that there's nothing creepy inside, and that it looks presentable to the girl. The last thing you want is having her come over, and then run out because your friend likes making collages of human body parts for "art". Make sure you have a place in the house that is secluded enough to have sex in.
Dating tip 2: Pre-set your mind on your goal. If you want to get laid that night, you should be thinking of that as your primary goal. Every interaction with a girl should have the context of you wanting to sleep with her later on. I don't mean for you to be creepy, but rather to have an "all out" approach. Make sure you ask the girl early on what she is doing later that night. Some responses that will make your work cut out for you, "I'm the designated driver, and we're all heading out in an hour or so", or "I'm visiting my mom, and staying at my brother's place". Some of these situations can be worked around, but usually your best bet is to find another girl.
If you ask her what she's doing later that night the good answers would be, "Finding an after party!" or "I'm not sure, what are you up to?" Both of those are really good indicators.
Dating tip 3: The most important dating tip. You need to lead as soon as you start the interaction. For example, grab her hand, and get her to follow you around the bar/club. A good way to do this is to say, "I gotta get a drink" take her hand, and lead. This is super important in creating attraction, and it is important if you want to lead her out of the club later on.
Dating tip 4: Escalate at the club. You need to escalate physically, and with what you're saying to her. Give small sexual hints here and there. Gauging her response will allow you to see if she's ready to leave with you, or if you need to spend more time making her comfortable. This is where you go for a kiss. During the make out make sure you pull away first. This is a subtle psychological trick that leaves her wanting for more.
Dating tip 5: Qualify her. A key dating tip any interaction. You need to tell her that you want to hook up with her for a reason other than her looks. There's a million ways to do this, some of them are, "You're the first girl that I was able to have a decent conversation with tonight, I'm glad we met". "I think that its awesome you went to volunteer in Ghana, you must be a really kind person. I think that's great". There's more qualifying pointers at Best Dating Manual dating tips. If you're feeling like you've escalated enough before, the money line here is, "To be perfectly honest, I'd really want to hook up with you right now". Make sure you do this after you qualify her for non-sex-related stuff.
Dating tip 6: Time to lead her out of the club. If you've been leading throughout the interaction it shouldn't be that much of a problem. If you haven't been leading it will be much more difficult. Leading is actually a must in all interactions with women.
One of the books that teaches it best is Become an Alpha Male. Take her hand and say, "K hun, we're getting out of here, let's go, we are leaving right NOW!" Then pull her by the hand and get out of the club. You need to keep up the energy while you're getting her over to your place. Make sure she's enjoying herself, and don't stop physically escalating. After you get to your place, make out with her against the wall as soon as you're through the door, and carry her to the bed afterward.
nderstanding how female body language works would be an important factor of cold reading. Staying on track and making sense as you talk is incredibly vital, most of all if you choose to read her palm as you do this tip. Actually, palm reading would serve to be the perfect choice here since you can touch the girl you are with. Even though you would only be touching her palms, it can still help with building a connection and building up overall attraction between the two of you faster than usual.
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