Showing posts with label Nice girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nice girls. Show all posts

Monday

Nice Girls Do It, Too!

It is absolutely true that when online dating sites first started they were populated entirely by perverts, sexual predators, weirdoes, social misfits and emotional wrecks but that is no longer true. Online dating has gone mainstream and has lost all the social stigma it once suffered. Single people of all ages, races, religions and both sexes do it. Short people, tall people, thin people, obese people do it. People from every developed country in the world do it. Nice girls do it, too.

The reasons people join online dating sites are as varied as the people who join but mostly they join for three very good reasons:
  1. Time : You can go through hundreds of online profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in the same length of time only one real world date takes and the screening is already done for you. You can tell right away if a guy is only looking for casual relationships or long term commitments. How many times have you worked 8 hours, gone home and spent another hour getting ready to go out then gone to the local hang-out for singles only to see the same old jerks, losers and drunks that are always there?
  2. Money: For the price of one evening out on the town you can enjoy an entire month of meeting men from the safety of your own home….do it in your jammies or sweats and with a beauty facial working its magic.
  3. It works :. It really does work if you are willing to do the right things. Write a profile that grabs attention, post recent pictures of yourself, be fun and interesting while chatting with the men you meet on line, answering emails promptly and being on time for a pre-arranged online meeting.

Friday

Mature Women Dating - Should I Date a Younger Man?

There seems to be a lot of controversy regarding the subject of mature women dating younger men and most of it, in my opinion, seems totally misplaced. After all this is the 21st century and no one bats an eyelid when an older man is dating a younger girl. I have to confess that I am a little uncomfortable with the idea of an older women, or cougar, as she is commonly called, dating a guy who is young enough to be her son, but if the age difference is 10-15 years and both people are happy, then my advice would be "go for it girl!"

Mature women dating know what they are looking for in a guy because they have been there and done it, so to speak. So they are not afraid to ask a younger guy what he is looking for in a potential relationship and if it is something other than what she wants, then she is not afraid to move on.

Women over forty are reaching their sexual peak and can find that an older man cannot match their requirements. In a younger man she normally finds that he is just as keen as she is and, and in return the younger guy finds a partner who is experienced and knows her body well, and can show him a thing or two.
A mature woman also knows that she can call the shots in a relationship with a younger guy. She has her own career and friends, and is not insecure or dependent on him. She isn' t looking for a husband or for a guy that would be a good father to her kids. In short, she is just looking to have some fun and to boost her confidence.

In conclusion, I would say what is the big deal with mature women dating younger guys? As long as both parties know what they are letting themselves in for, whether it is just a quick fling or a long term relationship, if it is making them both happy, then surely that is all that matters.

So girls, if you have been spurning the advances of a gorgeous younger guy for some silly outdated reasons, then what are you waiting for? Go girl!