Nice Girls Do It, Too!

It is absolutely true that when online dating sites first started they were populated entirely by perverts, sexual predators, weirdoes, social misfits and emotional wrecks but that is no longer true. Online dating has gone mainstream and has lost all the social stigma it once suffered. Single people of all ages, races, religions and both sexes do it. Short people, tall people, thin people, obese people do it. People from every developed country in the world do it. Nice girls do it, too.

The reasons people join online dating sites are as varied as the people who join but mostly they join for three very good reasons:

1. Time : You can go through hundreds of online profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in the same length of time only one real world date takes and the screening is already done for you. You can tell right away if a guy is only looking for casual relationships or long term commitments. How many times have you worked 8 hours, gone home and spent another hour getting ready to go out then gone to the local hang-out for singles only to see the same old jerks, losers and drunks that are always there?
2. Money: For the price of one evening out on the town you can enjoy an entire month of meeting men from the safety of your own home….do it in your jammies or sweats and with a beauty facial working its magic.
3. It works :. It really does work if you are willing to do the right things. Write a profile that grabs attention, post recent pictures of yourself, be fun and interesting while chatting with the men you meet on line, answering emails promptly and being on time for a pre-arranged online meeting.

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Fresh, fun, and sexy date ideas

It's easy to fall into the old dinner-and-a-movie routine, either out of habit or because you can't think of anything better to do. "Once the courting phase ends and people shift into a more comfortable zone, there's less incentive to come up with fresh ideas," says Courtney Cooke, author of Create a Date. "But if you don't mix things up, the relationship can get stale." Luckily, all you need is a little creative inspiration and a sense of adventure.

 

These suggestions should get you started

1. Have a DIY dinner. Set up a taco bar with all the fixings or make homemade pizza. "Creating something together is interactive, so it brings you closer," says relationship therapist Sandra Anne Taylor.
2. Plan a Sideways-style excursion and hit a vineyard for a wine tasting.
3. Spend the weekend day with your man, sipping cocktails and people-watching at a bar.
4. In the afternoon, visit open houses and fantasize about buying your dream home. "It'll help you look forward to what your relationship can be down the road," says Taylor.
5. Go on an edu-date. Taking classes on anything from Italian to film bonds you and introduces you to new things.
6. Hit a playground or an amusement park. Use the swing set, go on rides, win a teddy bear — you know, have fun like you did when you were a kid.
7. Play around-the-world cocktails. Sample one specialty drink from a wine bar, one from a pub, and another from a Russian vodka room. Take a taxi
8. Take him to a NASCAR-style event. Any guy obsessed with wheels (aren't they all?) will love a trip to the races.
9. Throw on your sexiest preppy duds and hit the indoor-golf driving range.
10. Pamper yourselves with a couples massage at a day spa. "It's a relaxing, sensual experience that can put you in an amorous mood as well," says Janice Levine, PhD, a clinical psychologist in Lexington, Massachusetts.
11. Book a room at a local hotel for only one night. To add an element of mystery, don't tell him where you're going.
12. Want to know if you have a future with your guy? Visit a psychic. You don't have to buy into her predictions, but at least you'll have a good laugh.
13. Instead of eating dinner in front of the TV, grab a blanket, a baguette, and Brie and have a picnic under the stars. Or nibble on finger foods in bed.
14. Test your luck at a nearby casino or horse race. Bring only a set amount of cash that you can afford to lose.
15. Go to a WWE event instead of a comedy club to bust a gut.

Mature Women Dating - Should I Date a Younger Man?

There seems to be a lot of controversy regarding the subject of mature women dating younger men and most of it, in my opinion, seems totally misplaced. After all this is the 21st century and no one bats an eyelid when an older man is dating a younger girl. I have to confess that I am a little uncomfortable with the idea of an older women, or cougar, as she is commonly called, dating a guy who is young enough to be her son, but if the age difference is 10-15 years and both people are happy, then my advice would be "go for it girl!"

Mature women dating know what they are looking for in a guy because they have been there and done it, so to speak. So they are not afraid to ask a younger guy what he is looking for in a potential relationship and if it is something other than what she wants, then she is not afraid to move on.

Women over forty are reaching their sexual peak and can find that an older man cannot match their requirements. In a younger man she normally finds that he is just as keen as she is and, and in return the younger guy finds a partner who is experienced and knows her body well, and can show him a thing or two.

A mature woman also knows that she can call the shots in a relationship with a younger guy. She has her own career and friends, and is not insecure or dependent on him. She isn' t looking for a husband or for a guy that would be a good father to her kids. In short, she is just looking to have some fun and to boost her confidence.

In conclusion, I would say what is the big deal with mature women dating younger guys? As long as both parties know what they are letting themselves in for, whether it is just a quick fling or a long term relationship, if it is making them both happy, then surely that is all that matters.

So girls, if you have been spurning the advances of a gorgeous younger guy for some silly outdated reasons, then what are you waiting for? Go girl!

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Do Bad Guys Always Get the Girl?

If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy always gets the girl. And didn't it seem that the bad boys at school always had the hottest babes? The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls. We see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, is it us, what has gone awry?

Men are confused. We like to refer to stereotypes and work from them. Men are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy. But then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides. Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends like crap, never calls, is rude and disrespect appears to have a fan club developing. Life, my friends, can seem unfair. But let's look at what is going on with this scenario.

Interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and have developed their own code of conduct. They do what they want. They go where they want. They answer to no one. They are, in other words, fascinating. Tow the line, do as you are told and inevitably you will be become dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not.

Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they're about and don't really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos, who is immensely attractive despite his rotund appearance. Some can become almost caricaturesof themselves, but that doesn't make them any less attractive.

Plus bad guys are a challenge. We all love a challenge, and women may love a challenge even more than the boys. If something is a challenge, the end results must surely be worthwhile, right? The girls who go after bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of crazy rainbow. They will go to great lengths to solve their mysteries. And once they have them, once they've conquered the challenge, they don't want to let go. Plus it makes for an exciting rollercoaster ride because the bad guy could walk away at any moment. The greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort they'll put forth to keep them. And there may be a lesson there.

What do we have if we combine these facets? Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality equals sexiness. That is exactly what the bad boy is, so it's no surprise that this type of guy often get the gal. It doesn't mean to say that we like them, and it doesn't mean it is fair or even a good thing, but raw attraction can be nature's way.

I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. Not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our arsenal of dating weaponry. How you perceive yourself that matters the most. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life, then you'll get that bad boy confidence. And that attitude will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go around being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.

The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics, analyze what is it that you think potential partners would like and think about how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.

The Advantages of Online Dating for Women. . .

In the past, i.e. the 1990’s, online dating was a brand new idea. Unlike today, most people did not own PC’s or even have access to the Internet. Times have changed. Online dating is not only IN the mainstream, it IS the mainstream.

There are many reasons for the phenomenal growth of online dating sites and the number of people, men and women of all ages, races and religions who use them as their primary source for meeting people and looking for “the one”.

If you don’t believe me, just ask your friends in the “real” world. If they are honest, most of them will tell you they have or are using an online dating service.

Here are three good reasons why thousands of people sign up for dating services everyday:

1. You can be anonymous. You will never be required to give your real name, address, email address, phone number or place of employment to another online user. You, of course, may do so but only at your own discretion and only when you feel completely safe. You are not required to post a picture of yourself. Posting a picture, however, will get more responses to your profile. So you can surf through the other members on the dating site you have joined with complete anonymity. 
2. You have so many more choices online that you do in your brick and mortar world. Before the world of online dating came of age, the choice of friends and even of lifetime partners was limited to those we came in contact with through college or work. No more…the world is your oyster. You can go through hundreds…even thousands of profiles to find the right man for you. 
3. The “safety factor” is the biggest reason of all. An online dating service will never reveal your personal information. You get to choose who has that information and when they have it. 

How To Boost Your Sex Life The Natural Way!

A look at some natural aphrodisiacs.

There are many well-known ways to boost a sagging libido, from oysters to zinc to Viagra. But what about some holistic alternatives?

First of all, with age our libidos go south -- estrogen, progesterone and especially testosterone in men and women," Cass said.

To combat a low sex drive, Cass first recommends eating right and getting enough fatty acids in your diet. "Fish oil particularly or flax oil because that's a precursor to the sex hormones."

There are a lot of herbs that actually enhance sexuality, Cass said.

Here are a few :  Sex-Boosting Herbs

•  Chrysanthemum
•  Cistanches
•  Cordyceps
•  Epimedium (a mushroom)
•  Jujube

You can get these herbs throught the shops on Everything Health and Beauty.

So is there any concern that you can take too much or that these herbs can have side effects?

"It's always good to talk to your doctor when you're on medication and taking an herb," Cass said.

Some herbs, Cass noted, actually act on the hormones themselves while others work on the circulatory system. The good news is that instead of side-effects, some of the herbs have side-benefits.

"A lot of these actually lower your blood pressure," she said. "So if you tend to have hypertension this will actually bring your blood pressure down in a much more natural way."

As for fragrance and aromatherapies, each individual has his or her own individual chemistry and things that they will prefer. But the following standards, Cass said, traditionally affect the emotional system, going "right into our emotional body and into our sensuality...and turn us on."

Stimulating Scents :

•  Ylang-Ylang
•  Rose
•  Patchouli
•  Sandalwood
•  Jasmine
•  Vanilla
•  Musk
•  Cinnamon
•  Coriander

As far as food goes, chocolate, particularly for women, is a sensuality enhancer, Cass said. Dark chocolate is probably better because you get more of the actual chocolate and less of the sugar, fat and other things.

Berries, bananas, peaches and other fruits are more about how you eat them rather then their composition, she said.

"Think of feeding each other berries, feeding each other a ripe peach or apricot," she said. "There's something very sensual about that. It's part of the foreplay."

11 Mistakes Men Make While Having Sex With Women

1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.

2) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which your rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs.When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.

3) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.

4) BITING AND TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good.Pretending they're a dogie toy, isn't. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.

5) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel.There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.

6) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.

7) STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there,keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.

8) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.

9) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.

10) GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool -she'll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly,with clean, straight, regular thrusts.

11) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask

How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.

However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.

Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.

 

Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

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How To Seduce A Woman - Tips, Techniques & Tricks

If you’re here and you want to know how to seduce a woman and make her fall helplessly in love with you, then you’re definitely at the right place.

In this short article, you will discover the killer ways to seduce a woman that most men will never, ever know about. The reason why most guys why never find out about this particular is that it’s too obvious. Let me explain more…

Many men seem to think that it’s necessary to learn about complicated “seduction routines” or techniques in order to seduce women – the thing is that all a man needs to know are some common sense techniques that work in any circumstances he is in. And the good thing is that these tactics are really not hard to learn and master. Study these techniques, understand them and try them out. Continue reading..........

Ways to Seduce A Woman – 3 Killer Methods You Must Never Miss

Method #1: Differentiation. If you are going after someone popular, and she seems to be always chased after by other guys, then this is the key trick that you must use. Firstly, remember that you never need to be BETTER than other guys in order to score with a woman – only DIFFERENT. In other words, you will need to stand out instead of being just another face in the crowd.

Remember that as with anything worth pursuing in life, competition will be intense. To beat the other guys in the game, differentiate yourself so that she is impressed with you. Read the following method in order to use a killer tactic on differentiate yourself by “hacking” into her mind..........

Method #2: Perform a Mind Hack. Here’s a simple DeadlySeduction trick that you can use to hack into her mind and create an impression. Firstly, ask her to describe about her dream guy – and make her describe him in the most vivid way possible. When she does this, covertly “insert” some suggestions in the conversation about how YOU fit the bill. You could even use some mild hypnosis to make it more effective.

The trick works best if you be as “covert” as you possible can. If you try too hard and become too obvious, she would lose her attraction to you. One simple technique to be covert when it comes to dating and seducing women is to exploit one particular loophole in female psychology (which is found in the next tip…).

Method #3: Exploit the Female Loophole. This is a fairly new development in the field of seduction. There exists a set of loopholes in female psychology which can be exploited in order to “force” a woman to feel attraction to a man.

Dating Tip - How to take a Girl Home With You

These dating tips are meant to give you the basics of getting the girl over to your place the first time you meet her. Getting a girl to come home with you from a bar or club is a skill. What I mean by that is that it can be learned, and just like basketball or cooking, you can improve at it. These are the steps you need to take when you in a club or bar in order to get the girl over to your place:

Dating tip 1: is to consider the details. By this I mean make sure that there's nothing stopping you from bringing her home. Make sure you have a place close to the venue. It doesn't have to be your house; it could be a buddy's flat that you have a key to. Make sure that there's nothing creepy inside, and that it looks presentable to the girl. The last thing you want is having her come over, and then run out because your friend likes making collages of human body parts for "art". Make sure you have a place in the house that is secluded enough to have sex in.

Dating tip 2: Pre-set your mind on your goal. If you want to get laid that night, you should be thinking of that as your primary goal. Every interaction with a girl should have the context of you wanting to sleep with her later on. I don't mean for you to be creepy, but rather to have an "all out" approach. Make sure you ask the girl early on what she is doing later that night. Some responses that will make your work cut out for you, "I'm the designated driver, and we're all heading out in an hour or so", or "I'm visiting my mom, and staying at my brother's place". Some of these situations can be worked around, but usually your best bet is to find another girl.

If you ask her what she's doing later that night the good answers would be, "Finding an after party!" or "I'm not sure, what are you up to?" Both of those are really good indicators.

Dating tip 3: The most important dating tip. You need to lead as soon as you start the interaction. For example, grab her hand, and get her to follow you around the bar/club. A good way to do this is to say, "I gotta get a drink" take her hand, and lead. This is super important in creating attraction, and it is important if you want to lead her out of the club later on.

Dating tip 4: Escalate at the club. You need to escalate physically, and with what you're saying to her. Give small sexual hints here and there. Gauging her response will allow you to see if she's ready to leave with you, or if you need to spend more time making her comfortable. This is where you go for a kiss. During the make out make sure you pull away first. This is a subtle psychological trick that leaves her wanting for more.

Dating tip 5: Qualify her. A key dating tip any interaction. You need to tell her that you want to hook up with her for a reason other than her looks. There's a million ways to do this, some of them are, "You're the first girl that I was able to have a decent conversation with tonight, I'm glad we met". "I think that its awesome you went to volunteer in Ghana, you must be a really kind person. I think that's great". There's more qualifying pointers at Best Dating Manual dating tips. If you're feeling like you've escalated enough before, the money line here is, "To be perfectly honest, I'd really want to hook up with you right now". Make sure you do this after you qualify her for non-sex-related stuff.

Dating tip 6: Time to lead her out of the club. If you've been leading throughout the interaction it shouldn't be that much of a problem. If you haven't been leading it will be much more difficult. Leading is actually a must in all interactions with women.

One of the books that teaches it best is Become an Alpha Male. Take her hand and say, "K hun, we're getting out of here, let's go, we are leaving right NOW!" Then pull her by the hand and get out of the club. You need to keep up the energy while you're getting her over to your place. Make sure she's enjoying herself, and don't stop physically escalating. After you get to your place, make out with her against the wall as soon as you're through the door, and carry her to the bed afterward.

5 Ways To Keep Romance Alive – On A Budget

Just about everyone agrees that a nice dinner and a good bottle of wine at a quiet, intimate restaurant will set the mood for romance, but have you seen the price tag?

Not everyone can afford to spend big money on romance ever time, but a bit of creativity can get the same results without breaking the bank.

Here are the 5 simple ideas to keep romance alive :

1. While most people know about ‘his and hers’ items like bathrobes and towels, there are a number of other items that can be enjoyed together as ‘couples’ items. Try getting matching T-shirts with cute sayings on them. Have matching his and hers overnight bags, coffee mugs, bicycles, cell phones, cars, holiday ornaments, tennis rackets, rocking chairs and even matching carved pumpkins on Halloween.
2. Surprise your partner by making the ordinary a little more special. If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where I’ve hidden your bookmark.” If they always turn the TV on when they come home from work, tape a note on the television that says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on?” instead. 
3. Making important memories is one way to be romantic on a budget. Challenge your partner to remember the most romantic kiss that you’ve seen in a movie. This will lead to some discussion about romantic kisses and should enhance the mood. As a surprise, buy that movie one day and try to recreate that special romantic kiss! Keep it in a special place and re-watch it whenever the mood strikes. If you can’t agree on the single most romantic kiss, go ahead and create a top five list. This tip works for anything. The top five most romantic songs. The top five most romantic movies. The top five most romantic books. You see the pattern. Make sure to go ahead and buy the books, songs, movies or whatever so you can use them in the future. 
4. If you want to plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low or you simply don’t want to have to leave the house, shut down the electricity and imitate a power outage (it’s up to you whether or not you tell him or her!). You won’t have any distractions or heat, so it is up to both of you to keep the other warm and entertain each other.
5. It’s hard to find anyone who doesn’t enjoy an Oreo cookie. Take an Oreo (or generic version of one), scratch the top of the cookie until smooth and then scratch a heart and your initials into the smooth surface. You can also make your own cookies and create personal messages. Another version is to make your own cupcakes and frost them with special messages in red icing. You can also give your spouse a true treat and track down a box of his or her favorite Girl Scout cookie.

These 5 simple ideas are sure to warm up any relationship. Don’t be afraid to try simple tips and changes to “routines” to spice things up without having it cost a fortune!

A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work.  Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online.  All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme.  That’s not only wise but vital.  So what’s a nice guy to do?  You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo.  You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you. 

You must be patient.  Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives.  Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online.  Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face.  She will think you are desperate or a pervert.  Patience.  Patience. Patience. 

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job.  A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit.  Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one. 

A picture really is worth a thousand words.  Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots.  If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head. 

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours  and that she bring a friend with her.  After all, you have nothing to hide.  You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you.  The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

How to Date a Libra Female in 7 Easy Steps. . . . .

Dating a Libra female is relatively easy. Libra females are especially drawn to the finer things in life, so be prepared to continually supply your Libra with a bunch of money to go spend at the mall. Libra females also tend to be gigantic flirts, so be ready to be constantly flirtatious and play little cutesy games with your Libra.

Instructions:

Step 1
Dress up for a night on the town. Treat her to refined activities such as wine tasting, theater, ballet or even quaint little social gettogethers. Libra females love elegance, beauty and the finer things in life.
Step 2
Flirt and play little back-and-forth games with your Libra female. Libras are extremely flirty by nature, but deep down they really do want a sacred romance with one partner who will romance the pants off of her over and over. This can get a little old after a while, but laziness is a romantic antidote, so be proactive.
Step 3
Earn lots of money so you can support your Libra's lust for material possessions and particularly the act of spending money. Libra females love to shop, and they love to spend money, usually on something disposable or that will only keep their attention for a short while until they need to go out and buy something else. As long as you have a bunch of money, your Libra will always love you.
Step 4
Let her decorate. Libra females love interior decorating, and they hate it when someone intrudes or undoes their ideas of perfection. Stick to the outside duties and allow your Libra female to attend to the indoor domestic duties.
Step 5
Propose marriage to your Libra female, because they love to get married. But make sure to follow through with an actual date for the wedding and stick to it. Libra females are very easily distracted, so if you get engaged to a Libra female and then don't marry her, she will become restless and agitated. Which can make you equally irritable.
Step 6
Hire a maid. Libra females aren't really cut out for routine cleaning duties. Libra females will clean when they have to, but not on any type of schedule. Hiring a maid will make your Libra eternally grateful.
Step 7
Fall in love over and over again with your Libra female. Libras are suckers for simple signs of affection. Even if they won't return the favor, deep down there somewhere they do appreciate simple acts of love and kindness.
How To Become An Alpha Male.
ONLINE DATING GUIDE

7 Reasons To Go Online For Dating and Love

Where do you go when you are looking for Date?

Are you considering joining an online dating site but not sure it’s for you? 

Let me tell you how I first discovered online dating and why I firmly believe it fits in with our modern day lifestyles. 

A couple of years ago online dating still had a stigma attached to it. Although people were using the internet as a method of dating, they did not discuss it with friends or colleagues for fear of coming across desperate. 

I recall a friend of mine who was initially embarrassed to tell me she had joined an online dating site. At the time, I was rather surprised as she was an attractive girl who would be considered quite a catch. However, after chatting to her I completely understood why she had resorted to this method of dating; she was simply tired of meeting timewasters who were not interested in committing to a relationship. 

Whilst she had no desire to date some of the men who contacted her, there were quite a few she was interested in and she began a dating spell to make any "singleton" jealous. She then struck up an online relationship with someone who lived 100 miles from her. After exchanging many emails and chatting on the telephone, she decided to meet him. Obviously, the distance didn’t make the relationship ideal but the spark was there and she enjoyed 6 months dating someone with similar interests, shared romantic weekends together and had a fantastic holiday. 

Although he didn’t turn out to be “the one”, when I asked if she regretted joining an online dating site her answer was "Definitely not!" Her view was that if she hadn’t joined an online dating site, those 6 months would have been spent moaning about meeting the same timewasters in the same old haunts and wondering "what if". She was simply being proactive in her search for love; after all life is far too short! 

If you’re not convinced online dating is for you, here are 7 reasons why I think online dating has its advantages:-

1. You don’t have to wait until the weekend to meet someone.
2. You don’t have to get dressed up for a night "online". Wear whatever you feel comfortable in at home.
3. If you work unusual hours online dating fits in with your schedule. You can log on at any time of the day to suit you; there is always someone online waiting to chat.
4. If you are new to an area online dating is a great way of meeting people whether it's for friendship or dating. If you meet a few people online in your area, you can arrange a get together for you all rather than meeting on a one-to-one basis.
5. If all of your friends have settled down or you have recently become single what better way to meet new someone quickly than to go online and meet more singles!
6. You will probably find out more about someone online before you arrange a date with them than you would if you had met them in a bar. Online dating usually makes people more cautious about who they choose to date and in this day and age that can’t be a bad thing!
7. We now live and date very differently to previous generations where the traditional place to meet people was in nightclubs, parties, at work or through friends. By joining an online dating site you are not excluding these avenues but simply extending your opportunities of meeting someone.

3 Great Tips For Online Dating

Did you know that most of the single people are using some kind of online dating service?

That's 60% of all singles! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real romance as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.

Why is this?

Well, it's true that some sites are better than others; they have more traffic, they are better to navigate; they just 'work' whilst others just don't. But what really matters is how you use a site when you actually sign-up to one. Take my word for it, unless you take the three simple steps that I'm about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a singles site. What I'm about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't bother doing the 'obvious'. So here goes...

1. Create A Great Profile.

This is the most important aspect of your dating site experience. Don't just say 'Nice guy seeks nice girl for trips to the cinema' - how boring does that sound? Take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you're hoping to meet. And remember to sound happy, upbeat, fun and confident; if you're miserable about your recent breakup, then keep it to yourself! This isn't the time for modesty; if you think you're pretty darn attractive, then be sure to say so. And humour is a real ice-breaker - if you can make someone laugh, they'll be more likely to want to contact you.

2. Always Upload A Photo.

Even if you don't have a very flattering one to hand, you should always post a pic with your profile. Remember, 95% of people on dating sites only search for other members who have bothered to provide a picture of themselves. You want to see what other potential partners look like so it stands to reason that other people will want to know what you look like too. If your photo isn't recent or isn't a great likeness of you, you can always say so in your profile.


3. Write Great Emails.

OK, you've joined a dating site, you've searched for other members who fall within your specified categories, and you've been presented with a page of matching profiles. You're eager to fire off a few emails...but what on earth do you say in them? Re-read the paragraph above about creating a great profile and apply the same rules to the first email that you send to another member. If it looks like you can't be bothered to say much or that you're sending the same one line message to several people, then they probably wont bother to reply. Tell that person a little about who you are and why you think you might both be compatible - respond directly to what you've read in that person's profile - sound interested and interesting and you'll get an email by return - sound boring and downbeat and you'll just be ignored.


So there you have it - 3 easy ways to make your chosen dating site work for YOU. Have fun and happy Dating!